What do I do!? I hate my body and I'm almost 14. ?

I weight around 95 a little lower and I'm 5' and 1/2 an inch tall, I have disgusting deposits of fat under my arms...my bf says he loves me and my body and that the way I eat is fine. I eat a lot of food in one day, today I ate for breakfast a piece of toast with peanut butter on it with a cup of milk (this was at 6:30 ish) 2 hours late I ate a piece of toast with butter on it, for lunch at 12:30 I had a piece of grilled chicken, I Also ate within an hour around like 2 an apple, low fat yogurt, and a cracker with a piece of pepperoni, for dinner I'm eating turkey meat loaf and a small baked potatoe. This is obvious too much food. I work out every other night, which it includes about 5 push ups, 30 crunches, wall sits, and 30 sit ups. I also run a few days a week sometimes 5 days...my boyfriend made me promise I would eat atleast 3 meals a day because at one point I was eating only two meals and no snacks. the way I'm describing myself may not sound fat but I look it, I have small fat deposits between m arms and breasts and when I lie on my side the fat in my stomach shifts to the side of my body closest to the floor. On top of this I have no butt too so I don't get anything good about being fat. Please give me some advice, I am getting so frustrated with myself. btw my boyfriend says I could gain some weight and I've asked him to stop saying it because I dont feel that way.